Souls Untied

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This image spoke volumes to me! At first glance some may immediately see perversion, but I saw a message. One that stood boldly in my mind. We are told to date multiple people until we find the person we will marry or until that person find us. Hence the phrase, "You are single until you are married." Yet we don't realize the destruction that takes place in the process of waiting and dating. When I saw this picture the first thing that came to mind was all the people we connect while we are dating. How can we find the one or the one find us if we are attached to so many others?

In this image I see a man and a woman that can not connect because they are connected to so many people. The only way to truly be in tune with the one you are trying to reach is to shut out distractions. Monogamy is the true way to connect and love but we are so removed from monogamy that the visual in this image will continue to be our downfall; disconnection.

At some point in all our lives sleeping around has to get old. Walking away from multiple bedsides leaving a piece of yourself with someone and taking a piece of them with you is not the way God planned for us to live. There is a lot of truth to soul ties. When we lay with someone we take on their traits, parts of them, and behaviors. Our spirits connect. I can see a few folks reading this disagreeing, but think about it? When you are in a relationship for a long time you find yourself talking like your mate, quoting your mate, even taking on some of their likes and dislikes. Just as you take on their traits you take on a part of their spirit when you lay with them. Why do you think there is dysfunction when you are sexually attached to more than one partner?

The reason there is dysfunction is because you are connecting spiritually to different souls. It may not seem like a big deal in the moment but you have to be careful what souls you connect with. Some individuals have bad spirits attached to them, which can attach to you through sexual acts. Once they are attached you can take that spirit on to others you are sleeping with creating a lot of chaos. It is real people. Sex is not a game. By a certain age we should know how to learn each other without sexual behavior. How can you say you've found the one if you are sexually attached to many?

It is merely impossible to find a deep connection when your mind is clouded with pleasure. Longevity can not survive off pleasure. There is so much more that goes into long term relationships, sex is a small piece. I say all this to say, as long as you are sexually connected to multiple people your soul will be untied to the person that is for you. The question you have to ask yourself is, do I want to continue to be untied or do I want a lifelong soul tie with the person destined for you. You choose!